I am thinking of trying again. I want an indoor species, I am open to the use of grow lights and if i am honest quite keen on growing plants in vivariums.
I would like to recommend you to start learning the essentials. There's a lot to find about the subject on this website.
Trees belong outdoors. Growing bonsai outdoors is easier than growing them indoors.
The bonsai growers I know don't use grow lights (you don't need them outdoors) and bonsai are not grown in vivariums.
Once you have understood the basics (top of the page, "How-To") you could try a tree that's native to your area, or that is known to do well there.
Look at the Tree Species guide (top of the page) for species that can be kept indoors.