i think i'll use the spring fertilizer(12-6-6) for 2-3 weeks till i see new growth and then i'll defoliate my tree.
also i have a dutch article about what certain elements do, such as (as you said, too much nitrogen will create too big leaves, denying the effects of defoliation.) Nitrogen helps growth in the plant. this article is really helpful but i COULD translate it if you REALLY wanted.
http://www.freewebs.com/ruudendiana/npketc.htm
to be honest ficus are not based on seasons like maples, pines and the like.
oh, i didn't know that about my japanese maple.