Hydroton is the same as LECA – light expanded clay aggregate.
You can find it in small sizes, like 4mm to 6mm, and it is commonly used as one of the components in bonsai soil mixes.
People here say "don't crush it", so I guess it is better to buy in the adequate sizes.
As for the DE - Cat litter, I've been using it with success.
ATTENTION: There are a VERY FEW brands that are possible to be used (the non-clumping ones). See here:
www.bonsai4me.com/Basics/Basicscatlitter.htm